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themitch
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« on: Sunday 04-Feb-07, 11:41 PM » |
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I was just wondering how everyone came to terms with having Ataxia? And the fact that life is going to change so irrevocably? For you, for your family, and for all the people around you?
I know my mum has taken years and, I think, is even now still coming to terms with it. She's very down, very low a lot of the time, also due to the fact that she just seems to be hit by one thing after another - back ache, then tooth ache, then a problem with a toe nail, then a bad cold, then a water infection, then stomach problems, then terrible neck ache, then another water infection, and on, and on ...
Individually they'd be fine, but when they're almost queuing up to hit her I think she sort of feels what's the point? And yet, amazingly, she fights each one with gusto, and does come out the other end. It really does seem to be relentless, though, it's no wonder she feels so low, it's like she's continually being kicked, with almost no chance of getting up in between bouts!
Is it/was it like that for anyone else? How did you handle it? What did you do? Did anyone say anything to you that really helped?
Any help?
theMitch
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